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		<title>Correlation between Self-Confidence and Leadership</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Self-assessment is the only way to effectively figure out about the flaws as well as strengths of our own selves. It is these factors which influence and improve the performance.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Self-assessment is the only way to effectively figure out about the flaws as well as strengths of our own selves. It is these factors which influence and improve the performance.</p>
<p>Normally, people who are not good at self-assessing themselves are hesitant to take up new challenges. This happens because such people feel incompetent to do the task in hand which is due to their lack of belief in their capabilities. This is where self -confidence comes into the picture.</p>
<p style="text-align: center; "><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-1945" title="self confidence" src="http://www.mrfatloss.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/self-confidence-300x224.jpg" alt="self confidence" width="300" height="224" /></p>
<p>Self-confidence is the only path to success. A lot of people have a tough time building this confidence in them. The lack of self confidence can have an adverse effect on a person’s career. People without confidence will find it difficult to lead or to succeed in their respective field.</p>
<p>Who would want to be lead by a person who is not sure about what he wants to do and believes that he cannot do anything right? It is important for a leader to be clear about what he wants and be able to give instructions efficiently. He should have an attitude and should carry himself well.</p>
<p>All the leaders lead their followers after following someone’s example. The qualities of a leader most often get reflected in his followers and influence their lifestyle. Hence, the leader should know what is correct and what they want to do in order to be able to guide his followers successfully.</p>
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<p>These are a few tops that are useful in helping a leader develop self-confidence:</p>
<ol>
<li>conduct an      exact self-assessment
<p>The basics of self assessment lie in the realization of ones potential with regards to fulfilling the tasks that are given to him. In order to judge this capacity properly, the person has to evaluate the determining factors with a lot of accuracy. For instance, if a leader claims that he can easily jump off a bridge, he should also consider the related aspects like the conditions exiting under the bridge and the physical stamina of the followers.</li>
<li>be accountable
<p>The realization that the leader faces the results of his decisions is very vital in order to ensure good leadership. It is the leader who has to be entirely accountable for all the consequences that occur as a result of his decision taking.</li>
<li>compete with      your own self
<p>Competition is healthy but only if looked at in the right direction. The best kind of competition is the one which is with out own selves. The leader should make a conscious effort to outdo him every single time and do better than the last time. The leader who tries to be better than anyone else eventually ends up fooling himself.</p>
<p>Self-confidence is a virtue which bears fruit only when there is stability. The leader must know how to make use of his self confidence well so that he can perform all his tasks well and be a good example for his followers as well as successors. The act of self confidence has to be used at the right time, at the right place and in the right quantity.</li>
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		<title>Self-motivation – the Only Way to Effective Leadership</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[A lot of people think that becoming a leader is nothing more than a child’s play. There are others who are of the opinion that if willpower and determination are all that is required to make a leader.
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<p>A lot of people think that becoming a leader is nothing more than a child’s play. There are others who are of the opinion that if willpower and determination are all that is required to make a leader.</p>
<p>Leadership is way more than all this. Of course, the qualities that are expected out of a leader are similar to those of an employer or a member which help them in performing their duties effectively. Training and development are crucial in order to help the leader develop skills that are essential in dealing with difficult issues and taking the right judgments to solve them.</p>
<p>There was a time when governments and administrations crashed due to the absence of proper leadership. However, in today’s day and age, globalization, technology, and increasing client and community expectations of every kind have made it mandatory for a leader to be an expert at his job. All the professionals know that they have to be extremely efficient and this is what makes the base of a good leader.</p>
<p>How does one develop all the traits required in a leader? It is not possible for everybody to be able to become a leader. In spite of the fact that a lot of people nurture the dream of becoming a leader because they think they are capable of it, he has to be trained properly so that he can make a good leader.</p>
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<p>According to leadership experts, the basic leadership skills can be developed while in school. It is in school that we first begin to face challenges and meet responsibilities. This is the ideal time when one can build up the qualities of guiding people into the right direction and learn to be a leader.</p>
<p>The simplest way of beginning to enhance your leadership skills in school is by leading fellow students in a group or in a classroom activity. Once such a responsibility is bestowed upon you, you will be entirely responsible for the decision-making and will have to guide your classmates in the right direction. It is you who has to develop strategies that will help your members perform better than the other groups. The leader should think of mutually beneficial ways which will be good for him as well as his team members.</p>
<p>Another excellent method of instilling leadership qualities in school is classroom organizations. Once you are appointed as the officer of a certain organization, you will automatically build up a sense of responsibility and authority. It is this realization that helps you enhance your skills and personality.</p>
<p>Hence, the basics of learning leadership from school are about learning to undertake and fulfill responsibilities. It is essential for the leader to know that it is not only him, but everybody in the team who will be affected by his decision. Learning responsibilities at school is extremely rewarding. Leaders who start dealing with responsibilities early are far better at their job because they know how to weight their pros and cons before taking a decision.</p>

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		<description><![CDATA[With great power comes great responsibility. Fulfilling the task of a leader efficiently is not an easy task. A series of qualities and characteristics are required in a person if he intends to be a great leader. A leader could be a team, a top representative, a figurehead, an executive person of an organization or [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1807" title="public speaking " src="http://www.mrfatloss.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/barack-obama-point.jpg" alt="public speaking " width="300" height="300" /></p>
<p>With great power comes great responsibility. Fulfilling the task of a leader efficiently is not an easy task. A series of qualities and characteristics are required in a person if he intends to be a great leader. A leader could be a team, a top representative, a figurehead, an executive person of an organization or a company. While being able to handle a group of people, public speaking skills are the most basic quality that should be possessed by the leader.</p>
<p>How will public speaking skills help in making a good leader? Public speaking skills are the sole key to communicating with a bunch of people at the same time. It is very important for a leader to be able to make his opinions heard to the people within his organization as well as the people in the outside world. The businesses of today’s times cannot flourish unless they promise absolute transparency and the good public speaking skills of the leader will only help the people know that the company is as transparent as it can get. He shareholders are a prime responsibility of a business enterprise. Hence, it becomes the job of the leader to explain to the shareholders the various decisions taken by the management.</p>
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<p>The charm of the leader helps him a lot in persuading the listeners about his plans and policies. It is a part of his business to be able to convince the members and all others that will be affected by the decisions that they are taken in the best of their interest. In case of disagreements and confrontations, the leader is expected to have the spunk to pacify the members and be able to help them reach a conclusion. If the leader possesses good public speaking skills, he can help the organization gain faith of the people by imparting information about the policies and strategies of the management.</p>
<p>The leadership potential of the leader surpasses the need for his public speaking skills. A good leader is the one who can set an example for his followers and lead them in an efficient manner. The lack of such leadership skills will have an adverse effect on his quality of leadership. The leader should be authoritative enough to be able to control the actions of his followers. Support as well as cooperation can be achieved by the leader by resorting to tactful and autonomous lines of thinking.</p>
<p>No good leader was ever born that way, leadership skills have to be developed and enhanced. The public speaking skills as well as leadership qualities of the leader are a result of constant learning, improvising, and taking efforts. the experiences that the leader goes through in his formative years also influence his leadership skills. It is the conviction and passion of every leader that makes him responsible, effective and worth of respect. A lot is expected from a leader and to fulfill all these he should be able to become a good figurehead in the first place.</p>

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		<description><![CDATA[There are no limits to the expectations of people from their leader. The leaders are always expected to be better than the rest and make fair and effective decisions every single time. Most of the times, the leaders manage to fulfill these expectations, but in the few times that they don’t, they have to face [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;">There are no limits to the expectations of people from their leader. The leaders are always expected to be better than the rest and make fair and effective decisions every single time. Most of the times, the leaders manage to fulfill these expectations, but in the few times that they don’t, they have to face a lot of flack. The qualities of the leader are then forgotten and all that is remembered are the vices. In order to save themselves from such situation, the leaders opt for a friendly approach. This friendly approach does manage to make the followers take the leader more lightly, but this approach does not always bear fruit.</p>
<p>TRUST: The feeling of trust can be interpreted in different ways. On one hand the followers are in a better position to trust a friendly leader while voicing their opinions and complaints trusting him to not lose his temper. On the other hand the friendly leader might lose trust of his followers with regard to progress as they might doubt his seriousness considering his friendly nature.</p>
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<p>NETWORK: having a good amount of networks is probably the biggest advantage of being a friendly leader. Such leaders have good contacts with a lot of people who will readily attend all his parties and even offer him their support, giving him the benefit of having a majority.</p>
<p>OBEDIENCE: the obedience factor of friendly leadership is quite tricky. Most often, the followers of such leaders tend to forget the leader’s authority and cease to obey the orders given to them by their leader as they begin to consider him as a ‘friend.’ However, this situation can e tackled by the leader if he decides to assert himself and apply the right amount of pressure at the right time.  In this way, the leader can be friendly towards his followers as well as maintain his power.</p>
<p>LOYALTY: It is always observed that the friendly leaders have all the loyalty of their followers. The best part is that this loyalty is obtained by being warm and friendly towards the followers and not by threatening or bribing them. Making friends with the followers is the most efficient way of gaining voluntary loyalty from the followers.</p>
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<p>PEACE: A follower will always think that his friendly leader will support him in every way possible in case of a row. It is this confidence of the followers that wins the leader a lot of faith and dignity. In case of any kind of disagreements, the friendly leader can easily facilitate a solution as he is on friendly terms with everyone. Also, in case of such leaders the thought of partiality never pops up.</p>
<p>OPENNESS: The characteristic of openness can work as a boon as well as a bane to the friendly leader. The friendship between the leader and his followers makes it inevitable for both of them to know a lot about each other. The information about the followers is useful in taking care of their needs but if the followers get to know more about their leader, they might use the information against him.</p>
<p>In order to be a friendly leader, you must strike a balance between friendship as well as responsibility to ensure that the friendship does not obstruct your leadership skills in any way.</p>

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